She hopes that helping people with their relationships will make for better marriages, stronger families, and healthier, happier children. I'm constantly trying to find out what's really going on here, how does this work, what could we say or do differently to get what we want out of life.It means I'm always trying to improve and make things better. The only way that I have discovered that men and women are alike is in our core desire.We almost never give anything our undivided attention. Understanding how men think can turn an awkward date into a great one.Men look for different things in a romantic relationship than in their other relationships.The workshops are filled with laughter and cries of recognition as men nod at her descriptions and women say, "So that's why they do that!" Before she began sharing her expertise about the opposite sex, Alison worked on children's issues and programs to help the homeless in Orange Country, CA.
So if I make him lunch to take to work with him, that's appreciation. Men are attracted to and admire and desire successful women.
Women feel happy right in the middle of their chest, like a vibration of happiness. If he has a moment of ecstasy and is really happy, it flows out through the chest and into his arms and hands, and that's where you get high-fives, or jumping up to hit a cross-beam. One major difference is that women base more decisions on love.
A man, when he feels happy, it's his upper chest and shoulders and neck that fill with energy. As a woman, if I love you and you love me, we should get married. For a man, that he loves a woman is just one of many factors.
She started studying men for her own benefit, but soon discovered that what she learned was worth sharing.
She now teaches a series of workshops to help both women and men understand their differences, appreciate what they share, and build stronger, healthier relationships.
I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.