While it does require less effort for women to get responses from the opposite sex, they’re not really in the best position, as they have to dig through a lot of junk before they find any substance.Headlines are just as important as the content in your message.Ideally, you want to use it to complement and augment your existing chances of finding a partner.But what if you don’t have any chances or opportunities in your day to day life?Everyone jumps the gun, telling you to personalize each message you send.You follow their advice, only to realize that not only are people not responding to your messages, they’re not even opening them.And when 80% of the messages are either, you can’t really blame them for not responding to most messages—even if you personalize your mails.
While women may get an ego boost when they receive 30-100 messages in any given week, nobody really wishes to have that much admin to sift through.
During my early days into the world of online dating, I did an experiment. That’s like having a hole in your pocket which continues to leak money right to your door step.
Keeping everything else equal, I wanted to confirm whether there was a correlation with income and the number of responses I received. Just digging deep into some code, whilst watching the latest episode of ‘Suits’. You shouldn’t be surprised if an unwanted visitor knocks on your door, or commits an act of theft in the night.
Take a good look at yourself, and ask whether you are neglecting the key areas of your life which are holding you together.
As with everything in life, balance is the key to a happy, satisfied life.
The moment I turned the dial to 0k (I don’t earn this much), I received a message. Ahh, no worries, the income stated on my profile is incorrect anyways. Moral of this story: If you earn a lot of money, but you want to find someone who will love you for the qualities you bring to the table first, don’t boast about your income, as you will only attract a leech who isn’t even faintly interested in your character.